Tantra (Sacred Sexuality) is an ancient yogic and spiritual tradition from India. The purpose of tantra is to provide tools for humanity to progress forward in its spiritual evolution. It helps the human species to elevate itself, to transform to higher states of being.
Although there are many paths to Enlightenment tantra is considered the accelerated path.
One way in which tantra is distinct from other spiritual practices is that it provides tools to cultivate and expand sexual energy.
This intensified sex energy is used as a “fuel” to add power and velocity to spiritual practices and accelerate spiritual growth. Tantra (Sacred Sexuality) gives tools for bringing Light (sometimes called God-energy, Universal Life Force etc.) into the body and contain it within. Sex energy becomes a resource to attain higher consciousness, ultimately leading to union with Divine Consciousness.
Tantra also works for those who are not interested in higher consciousness, but who would like to bring spirituality into sex or who would like to have more intense sexual experiences and pleasure. Even if you are are someone who says you are “not spiritual” or “not into spirituality” tantra will work.
Tantra encompasses many methods such as yoga postures, meditation, pranayama (breath work), health and healing, energy practices, yantra, mantra and tantric sexual practices. Exercises to dissolve blocks to trust, intimacy and love as well as work to elevate self-regard and confidence are included.
“I got into a state of ecstasy and bliss. The pleasure was intense. The energy was so beautiful. I had a powerful breakthrough. In my religious upbringing I was taught that sex was bad and sex was separate from God. But I heard a song in my head during the experience, “Me & God and God & me are one….”. I felt sorrow get released, there were tears, and confusion [about this] cleared. ” Male, business owner, oil industry.
“I am without words when people ask me, “so, how was your workshop?” Words like amazing, incredible, revealing and life-changing, magical, inspiring, transformational … can’t begin to describe my experience.
I am not the same woman I was on Friday night. I’m flying in my feminine. I’m no longer withholding my femininity from men. ” Ms. GS
“For the past 3 years my wife and I sometimes went more than a month without sex. Because of what we learned we have sex once or twice a week now. The course made such a difference to our life. ” Mr. A. P., Restaurant Owner
“My husband and I learned how to communicate with each other.”
Lucy Becker was voted #1 Tantra Teacher in Toronto by the respected alternative periodical NOW Magazine. She is the founder of the Tantra Center of Toronto, also known as Tantra Workshops and has been teaching tantra (sacred sexuality and couple intimacy workshops) around the world for more than 20 years.
Lucy has been teaching tantra in Canada and the US since 1996 at the University of Toronto Women’s Centre and University of Toronto Sex Peer Counselling Service, and Canadian College of Naturopathic Medicine.
Articles featuring Tantra Workshops have appeared in local and national print: Toronto Star; National Post; Flare magazine and ELLE. Television appearances include ‘Sex TV”‘ and ‘Sex Matters’ (City TV) and radio broadcasts both in the Toronto area and in the United Kingdom.
Lucy has worked to establish a relationship of trust with the wider community and has built a reputation for courses that result in long-lasting, life-changing outcomes in intimacy, sexuality and relationships for couples and singles alike.
Tantra Level 1 is our entry-level course. The Oli Program and Tantra Level 2 are intermediate-level courses. Advanced courses are available to graduates who have completed Level 1, Level 2 and Oli.
Tantra Level 1
Tantra is an ancient yogic tradition which explores relationship and sexuality from a spiritual perspective. This weekend is an extensive entry-level tantra workshop, on retreat in a country setting.
Tantra Level 1
Tantra Level 1 takes place 4 times per year, twice before summer and twice after.
One Tantra Level 1 workshop remains for the year 2017, date as noted, above.
Tantra Level 2
Tantra 2 is an intermediate-level tantra course. It focuses on practical skills and lots of practice time. It includes a manual for your reference at home.
Tantra Level 2
Prerequisite: Tantra Level 1
Tantra Level 2 takes place once a year. Tantra 2 for the year 2017 is complete.
The Oli Program
7 weeks. Ejaculation control and male multiple orgasm for men. Connecting with the Sacred Sexual Fire within, for women. Learning powerful, explosive tantric orgasm and Sacred Spot Orgasm (G-spot).
Starting October 13 (in process)
7 weeks /on Fridays
6:30 pm-10:30 pm
Prerequisite: Tantra Level 1
Next Oli Program starts: February 23, 2018
“Cost was a concern when I first was thinking of signing up. Forget the acronyms, Oh My God was it ever worth it. The confidence I got in myself and in expressing myself around women! It has a lot to do with learning about masculine energy. I had sex for the first time in 6 months! ” Male, B.Sc.
“I don’t think I would have even asked my gorgeous wife out, without the confidence around women I got from your course. My wife has now also done the program.” Male, PhD Psych.
“I wanted to share an unbelievable comment my new boyfriend made to me after a wonderful evening (which lasted into the wee hours of the morning!) the day after the course. He said, and I quote : “ …I’ve never been with a woman that made me feel like such a man.”
On another note, I have to say that using the lingam (is that how you spell it?) technique was a HUGE (every pun intended) success!” Ms. A.T., Baker
“After another hour of wild, passionate sex I had the most intense orgasm I have ever experienced. I have no true words, however, for the next part of what happened.
I felt like my root chakra opened and connected to Source. In my mind I was looking into an immense, massive swirl of energy. Energy rushed through through all my body. It was very intense. I was barely able to speak.
The next thing I knew I was overcome with an intense feeling of Love, such a deep pure Love that I started weeping. I was in state of pure Bliss and Ecstasy. I was clear that it was my connection with my wife’s sexual essence that helped open the pathway. ” Male, CEO.
“What is great is I used the tantric practices to approach a new partner. I used them to get to know her on the dating site, to invite her to dinner and flirt during dinner. When I invited her back to my place she said yes. I used energy touching and ejaculation control. We are getting together again next week!” A.F. B.Sc., Geography.“
“Before I did the course I was worried whether it was actually going to work. It was SO incredibly worth it. A life altering, permanent shift in my experience of myself as a woman, as a sexual, sensual and connected human being. I am forever grateful.” Female, Manager
“I was concerned about talking about sex in public. It was not something I would do. But it was absolutely worth it. I had no idea I could be so comfortable talking about sex. ” Male, PhD.
“I have a new girlfriend and she says she’s ‘never had sex like this’. She is 10 years younger than me. Thank God for tantra, without it I’d be a dead man! ” M.S., IT
“When I walked into a room, heads turned (both men and women) because something was different about my energy, it was much more attractive. For the 2 days after I did the workshop, every male at my work would not leave for about 15 minutes, very unusual. They just stayed to talk to me because my energy was different, but they didn’t know that, I think. I was even attracting men off the street into work! Sounds weird, and it was definitely out of the norm but very noticeable.” Ms. P.M.
“I grew up in a harsh, religious environment, where sex was considered bad. This affected me during my whole life. In my marriage of 30 years I had very little sex. I have separated and am exploring my sexuality very happily, with no guilt. I can’t believe how happy I am!” LA , Ms. M.C . Mortgage Broker
“Last night was the most passionate sex I’ve ever had. I noticed a greater intensity and sensitivity in sex after the course. When I left my girlfriend’s place I could still feel her presence for a few hours. ” S.C., Male, Teacher
“I realized that I disconnected from my body very young due to sexual abuse. If I had not attended the workshop, I would not have found out and released the origin of the shame. It has allowed me to move through the guilt and confusion around the sexual abuse. The realization that I have the right to enjoy the rest of my life is priceless.” SB, Female, I.T. Manager
“It was worth every penny. I am finally able to have orgasms with other people and not have anxiety, or give up or shut down. I got a sense of great healing. I can experience sex without shame, with joy and ecstatic connection to all life as sacred. Every time I am in this energy it heals on a deeper level.” Female, Teacher, Native Herbalist
“I am a V. P. of Marketing. My job is very stressful. Several times during the day I close my door and take 5 minutes to do the technique from my Level 1 Tantra, and it brings me peace. It keeps me sane. ” J. S., Vice President, Regional Headquarters, international oil company
“I was able to handle a fight between my two children in a wholly different way. I handled it with ease and compassion because I took a few minutes and did the Heart Meditation exercise before speaking with them. “
“It’s funny. I came expecting that this course would be all about sex. Instead I found out it was about love.” Male, single, and looking to be in relationship.
“The week after taking Tantra 1, I signed my biggest sale in two years. It was one of my easiest. I attribute my success to the Tantra 1 course because I was able to release blocks that were holding me back in my work. It’s difficult to express just how powerful the Tantra 1 course is.” Leanne, Sales, Construction Supplies
” As a man I always thought that my sexual energy was bad and that I should not show it . Now I’m very comfortable about having lots of sexual energy circulating in me. In fact, I use the energy during my day to be more creative and to give me vitality.” Mark S., MBA
“Since you showed me to move my hips more effectively [to move energy through the body] and roll my shoulders it has heightened my sexual climax. ” Female, MSW, Manager
“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” Rumi, Persian Poet, 13th Century
“My wife left and we got divorced five years ago. I was crushed. I felt I would never be able to love anyone again and in fact haven’t dated in 5 years. But I wanted you to know-something has healed. I now know I can fall in love again. ” J. J. IT Manager, Telephone company.”
“I now know that sexiness is within. I’ve given up feeling like I should look a certain way before I can allow myself to feel sexy.” Female, Lawyer.